As a former stripper (although I prefer adult entertainer) I went the opposite way. From stripping to being a wife and mother. I sucked at the wife part and some people would say I sucked at the mom part. But I did the best I could and my kids didn't ever want for anything because of the job that everyone I knew hated. No minimum wage job could have done that or allowed me to be home with them so much.
Congrats on the new baby. And, most of the other dancers I know are single moms too. It's not the antithesis of being a mom. It's just not the accepted "norm".
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Date: 2013-01-27 12:26 am (UTC)Congrats on the new baby. And, most of the other dancers I know are single moms too. It's not the antithesis of being a mom. It's just not the accepted "norm".